With Much Gusto!

After a few days of bickering and my mood swings set upon my Hon’, the yielding day came unexpectedly.

Jordan fetched me from work two days ago. Coincidentally, I was looking my best having worn the perfect dress coat at the perfect rainshower weather. On the other hand, he looked dashing with a simple powder-blue sleeves and slacks and oozed with pheromones from a lady’s perfume.

As we officially ended our fight days, I led him walking to my favorite nook lately: Kainan Au Gusto. My first encounter with the place was two to three years back but it never fails to amuse me every time I visit and dine.

Upon entering, he thought that the place was some sit-down-plated-meal sort of restaurant. But instead, he was greeted at the far end of the rustic haven by an aluminum countertop showcasing a variety of Filipino dishes cooked in homey goodness. We had dinuguan (pork in blood stew), ginataang langka (jackfruit in coconut milk), and tenderized adobong baboy (pork adobo).

During dinner, Hon’ was mesmerized by the trinkets and other stuff hanging loosely at the ceiling or in the walls. Just like a kid, he just stares and smiles at them. I can’t blame him. After all, the ambiance exuded by Kainan Au Gusto is not only inviting but rather relating to each and every guest. It has the feel of going to your grandmother’s house every Sunday to share the lovely meals she prepared for the entire family.

After dinner, Jordan had the old-time favorite saging con hielo (banana in ice) as dessert. As for me, since I do not do desserts, I passed.

The experience is always a feel-good whenever I dine at Au Gusto. But more importantly, seeing Hon’ light up in awe has been the most rewarding for this sidetrip yet.

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Beginner’s Luck

Ever wonder why even most people who go to casinos have cars, cabs are aplenty waiting outside? Because patrons will most likely go home with only enough money for taxi.

Last night was an experience for me. After indulging at Kainan Au Gusto for dinner, my next stop was somewhere beyond my usual route home from work: a casino.

Agreeing to meet at such place, I found Jordan at one of the baccarat tables betting to his heart’s content. Told him to slow down for he was betting big until nothing was left. For his Php 1,500.00 starting, he won up to Php 5,000.00 and then few wrong bets left him empty-handed. He then took me at the slot machines area so I could try my so-called beginner’s luck. Apparently, it was only my imagination that such luck exists. On the other hand, Jordan won a bit more than a grand until it was my cue to press the’collect’ button. Few more games and bets left and right and we went home losing everything. I know I was supposed to somehow control Jordan’s want to bet but I was swayed. There is something in the place that convinces you that you are LUCKY.

We went home tired and too sleepy and for a bonus, I sported a bad migraine earlier this morning. If I will never go back again in a casino, that I am unsure. I guess I just have to be contented of however big our winnings will be. Satisfaction is the key. But I still do not promote gambling as a hobby. It can be very addictive. I maybe am now.

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Thank You for the Greatest Love of All

Whitney Houston

1963-2012

I was roused from my slumber today with several missed calls from A, who happens to be at Naga City for briefing. Turns out our demanding client was asking for a copy of the presentation be sent to his e-mail immediately. So here I am, doing my best to come up with revisions the client wants from our previous meeting with him days ago. Couple of minutes after calling up A, I went down to business and started on the presentation (I am actually doing this blog in-between. LOL) when A called me up and dropped the news:

Whitney Houston passed away.

Being a rowdy bunch we are at Team Kidlat, I initially thought he was stating something in gay lingo. Apparently not.

I may never be a hardcore fan of hers but I am definitely one gay guy who is at awe by this uneventful news. Growing up as a child of 90′s, I looked upon Kris Aquino and Spice Girls being my threshold of queer. It was only during my early adult life that I slowly appreciated Whitney Houston and her beautiful music. Not only that they are powerful vocally, they appeal to the emotions and form a part of your life. Yes, she may have wasted the late part of her life away doing drugs and other forms of addiction but then again, we all have problems and we have our own forms of coping with them. Though in most people’s pedestals, she’s still human.

Regardless of the un-diva things she’s done, Whitney Houston gave us beautiful music where we can draw inspirations from. She was a legacy, an epitome of class and talent, that the younger and succeeding generations missed greatly.

Thank you for the Greatest Love of All. You will be missed.

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And here I am playing my favorite Whitney Houston song on-loop…

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Hair Scare

Most people consider the hair as their crowning glory, I do too.

poor service

I just hated the way the hair on the side of my head keeps on clumping making me look like Larry Fine. Today, after an interview at some company, as I was on my way leaving Brgy. Kapitolyo, I happened to pass by Anyo Salon and Spa that seemed void of customers. Even if the salon looked dubious, with its ‘beauticians’ er, I mean image stylists looking like overweight trolls hanging out by the door, I decided to have my quick fix.

First observation: 1) the stylist who entertained me looked worse than the comedian, Chokoleit. He was sporting a Justin Bieber-ish hair with the bangs in BLONDE! I remember a friend giving an advice that whenever new in a salon, always choose the stylist with the best hair because most likely, he has style. This trog, CLEARLY HAS NO SENSE OF STYLE WHATSOEVER. (Pardon my CAPS, I just hated what he f_cking did to my hair) So basically, I disregarded the first hint.

Second, his cape (the one they put on you to avoid being covered with hair) smelled awful–like some sweaty guy slept on it. I just told myself not to complain, you do not ask for more when you’re getting a Php 50.00-haircut.

Third and finally, the way he cuts my hair was so lax. Think of a lazy hippo in a watering hole. Yes, that’s how.

Then in the middle of my dilemma came a call–it was the company asking me to go back since the big boss wanted to see me for the final interview. I hurried the stylist to finish my cut yet to be keen on details. Subsequently, my honey called me up and my attention drifted away from saving my hair into a potential disaster.

The edge behind the ear on this side was shaved too high and not equal with the left ear. Ugh.

The result: an utter disappointment. I just zuezzed up my hair to make it at the least presentable and went to the counter to pay. Much to my surprise, when I handed the stylist a hundred bucks, without bothering to say something, stuffed the bill into the cash register. I asked for the loose change to which he replied: “I am the senior (stylist).” I wanted to make a face but time was of the essence. Thinking to myself, the cut he did was not even worth my measly sum of coins alone. Frustrated, I went to my interview and tried to shrug everything off until Jordan and I met at Makati. It was then that he made me realize how idiotic the cut was. It was bordering military and wearing a toupee. Insane. That’s when I started looking for a place where I can have it fixed the soonest. I ended up meeting my old stylist, which I no longer go to, for him to remedy the problem and soften up the angles that were very offensive. It was my honey who oversaw everything telling Lito (my old stylist) what to cut and decrease.

Thankful for my new look, I went home satisfied and with a smile. And thanks to my newfound image consultant (naks!), my hon’.  :) )

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Love on Top

Been obsessing with Beyoncé‘s Love on Top: simple, upbeat, and straight-from-the-heart. I only heard it from a friend once, then just last night, it drifted back into my consciousness and started browsing for covers and downloaded an mp3 of the instrumental with backup vocals. Something tells me this track will be on-loop for a couple of weeks, or three perhaps.

One more thing, there is something with the song that makes me feel more mushy towards my guy, Jordan. The line that goes: “you’re the one who gives it all…” holds true of how my hon’ takes good care of me. I mean, ever since we’ve been together, there’s never a day he failed to be with me. He’d always go wherever I go may it be meetings, leisure, or a trip East for a final interview.

I guess this time, the heavens allowed me to find someone who will be the one to take care of me. After all it’s been hard being in a relationship full of unrequited love. Whatever happened to the previous guy in my posts? Good question. As many predicted, it ended way too fast even before I can say “kung hei fat choi!” I cried, yes. And it’s only human to do so, but the funny thing is, the crying happened before the actual breakup. The breakup, on the other hand, was swift and nonchalant. Which is good …for me at least.

Life is too short and I’ve learned not to dwell on things that only deprive you of time, effort, and happiness. Changes happen whether we like it or not. As for me, I’m just glad that finally my love’s been put on top!

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P.S. Here are so-far the best covers I’ve heard: from Nina;

and from Gerald Adrian http://www.youtube.com/user/grrrald .

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The Third Law

In 1687, Sir Isaac Newton published the Philosophiæ Naturalis Principia Mathematica or The Mathematical Principles of Natural Philosophy which illustrates the three Laws of Motion. But for this entry, I would have to skip the first two which do not concern me at all at the moment. Let’s talk about the The Third Law.

“For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.”

Force, obviously, comes in pairs. If taken on a different context, let’s say relationships. One cannot have a partner in the absence of the other. People always say that relationships are a two-way street. I would like to believe so too. One cannot solely stir the ship especially against high seas and impenetrable currents.

Personally, I need my lover to man the wheel as well. I have been nothing but patient and forgiving and understanding. But the enduring can go on and never acknowledged, nor never will be. I do not clamor for any romantic grandeur, just the Third Law: the equal and apposite reaction that I am supposed to get and the one for which I am entitled to.

Action-reaction is nothing but natural. In fact, we are well surrounded by it. Its absence from my relationship is nothing but a big question–

…or perhaps the reaction that I needed to feel was present all along. Maybe I misconstrued the concept of Newton’s Third Law and expecting something equal–but not necessarily opposite.

The way I am feeling was scientific after all.

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It’s More Fun in the Philippines!

The Department of Tourism (DOT) launched last January 6 its newest tourism campaign to encourage both local and foreign tourists to experience ‘fun’ the Filipino way. While it is being lauded by the Palace (The Malacañan) others expressed their dismay that the slogan has been ripped from a Swiss ad back in 1951. So what? I humbly think that the Filipino version of it has become more viral and more FUN. We pulled this campaign off better than the one years back. LOL

Tons and tons of videos and photos were uploaded on the internet and the hashtag #itsmorefuninthephilippines and #1forfun have quickly become trending topics at the social site, Twitter.com. Only goes to show the warm participation and support for this new campaign that TRULY captured the Filipino essence.

Here are my own contributions for the ‘It’s More Fun in the Philippines’ photos:

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Visit the official site for the campaign at http://itsmorefuninthephilippines.com

Facebook fan page at http://www.facebook.com/morefunPhilippines.official