Love for a French Toast

Sure French toast goes good for breakfast. But then again, wouldn’t it be sweet if someone brings you stacks of ‘em for late dinner (especially when you were craving.) I may have been had with those bordering-bland toasts and though I appreciate the thoughtful gesture, we still come from different perspectives. After too many failed relationships, I should know better now. On a lighter note, kudos for myself for not hastily rushing into another ‘would-have-been’ relationship.

And no, I am not being mean nor I harbor any grudge. It’s just that we’re not meant to be. That’s all.

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10 Days After

I am supposed to write about gaining wisdom and gratefulness blahs for turning a quarter year old.

Not in this entry.

10 days ago, I turned a year older and I spent my birthday in a quite simple manner–just like how I always do, every year. I roamed the streets of Manila with Jordan and took a lot of photos. Prayed to the Buddhist shrine in Binondo, went further to the Intendencia Ruins, and ate at the skirts of the Ayuntamiento in an al fresco manner. Days went by so fast that I now find myself single yet again. I guess I hurried being in a relationship so fast that my emotions got the best of me. I haven’t been able to write lately when in fact, I so wanted to. I guess the ‘block’ just came back again. There are so many things I’d like to write about like how I have gone dormant with my volunteer group, how I got a new job in advertising, how Jordan and I never fulfilled most of our plans, and how I am now 25 years old.

So little time, so much to do.

[cue music: This Love - Craig Armstong]

Time has gone by so swiftly that the hype of my birthday seemed so long ago. At least I was able to celebrate it with my colleagues and Jordan, who made it special in every way he can. I appreciate all the efforts.

Back to reality and we’re now pressed for time (and manpower) for the projects being sent by clients. Just earlier, I felt bad over petty things which an average advertising guy should not be bothered about. Developing a thick skin should be my next goal. No room for weeping and sulking. I gotta move along and I shall start today. I am supposed to be bad. I can do this.

Pasinaya 2012

February is the Arts Month and as it comes to an end, what better way to cap it than experiencing the annual open house of the Cultural Center of the Philippines dubbed as Pasinaya. For the first time, the CCP will highlight a regional culture and will be fusing Iloilo’s Dinagyang into the open house festival.

Pasinaya, which literally means ‘inauguration’, is a multi-arts celebration showcasing the talent and skills of the CCP resident companies such as Ballet Philippines (BP), Bayanihan Dance Troupe, National Music Competitions for Young Artists (NAMCYA), The Philippine Ballet Theatre, The Philippine Madrigal Singers (Madz), The Philippine Philharmonic Orchestra (PPO), Ramon Obusan Folkloric Group, Tanghalang Pilipino (TP), and the University of Santo Tomas Symphony Orchestra.

This year’s Pasinaya will also feature Ilonggo culture showcasing music, culinary, film, and dance. That’s all-pure Ilonggo flavor for you! Tribu Lunok of the Iloilo National High School will be the main performing attraction during the street program being the winner of this year’s Dinagyang Ati Tribe Competition in Iloilo. The program will start at 8:30 am tomorrow morning, February 26, 2012, at the Pedro Bukaneg side of the CCP Complex and the house shall be open to public immediately after. Visual and performing arts for the whole day–see all you can for only Php 20.00 (.5¢)

See you all.

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With Much Gusto!

After a few days of bickering and my mood swings set upon my Hon’, the yielding day came unexpectedly.

Jordan fetched me from work two days ago. Coincidentally, I was looking my best having worn the perfect dress coat at the perfect rainshower weather. On the other hand, he looked dashing with a simple powder-blue sleeves and slacks and oozed with pheromones from a lady’s perfume.

As we officially ended our fight days, I led him walking to my favorite nook lately: Kainan Au Gusto. My first encounter with the place was two to three years back but it never fails to amuse me every time I visit and dine.

Upon entering, he thought that the place was some sit-down-plated-meal sort of restaurant. But instead, he was greeted at the far end of the rustic haven by an aluminum countertop showcasing a variety of Filipino dishes cooked in homey goodness. We had dinuguan (pork in blood stew), ginataang langka (jackfruit in coconut milk), and tenderized adobong baboy (pork adobo).

During dinner, Hon’ was mesmerized by the trinkets and other stuff hanging loosely at the ceiling or in the walls. Just like a kid, he just stares and smiles at them. I can’t blame him. After all, the ambiance exuded by Kainan Au Gusto is not only inviting but rather relating to each and every guest. It has the feel of going to your grandmother’s house every Sunday to share the lovely meals she prepared for the entire family.

After dinner, Jordan had the old-time favorite saging con hielo (banana in ice) as dessert. As for me, since I do not do desserts, I passed.

The experience is always a feel-good whenever I dine at Au Gusto. But more importantly, seeing Hon’ light up in awe has been the most rewarding for this sidetrip yet.

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Beginner’s Luck

Ever wonder why even most people who go to casinos have cars, cabs are aplenty waiting outside? Because patrons will most likely go home with only enough money for taxi.

Last night was an experience for me. After indulging at Kainan Au Gusto for dinner, my next stop was somewhere beyond my usual route home from work: a casino.

Agreeing to meet at such place, I found Jordan at one of the baccarat tables betting to his heart’s content. Told him to slow down for he was betting big until nothing was left. For his Php 1,500.00 starting, he won up to Php 5,000.00 and then few wrong bets left him empty-handed. He then took me at the slot machines area so I could try my so-called beginner’s luck. Apparently, it was only my imagination that such luck exists. On the other hand, Jordan won a bit more than a grand until it was my cue to press the’collect’ button. Few more games and bets left and right and we went home losing everything. I know I was supposed to somehow control Jordan’s want to bet but I was swayed. There is something in the place that convinces you that you are LUCKY.

We went home tired and too sleepy and for a bonus, I sported a bad migraine earlier this morning. If I will never go back again in a casino, that I am unsure. I guess I just have to be contented of however big our winnings will be. Satisfaction is the key. But I still do not promote gambling as a hobby. It can be very addictive. I maybe am now.

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Thank You for the Greatest Love of All

Whitney Houston

1963-2012

I was roused from my slumber today with several missed calls from A, who happens to be at Naga City for briefing. Turns out our demanding client was asking for a copy of the presentation be sent to his e-mail immediately. So here I am, doing my best to come up with revisions the client wants from our previous meeting with him days ago. Couple of minutes after calling up A, I went down to business and started on the presentation (I am actually doing this blog in-between. LOL) when A called me up and dropped the news:

Whitney Houston passed away.

Being a rowdy bunch we are at Team Kidlat, I initially thought he was stating something in gay lingo. Apparently not.

I may never be a hardcore fan of hers but I am definitely one gay guy who is at awe by this uneventful news. Growing up as a child of 90′s, I looked upon Kris Aquino and Spice Girls being my threshold of queer. It was only during my early adult life that I slowly appreciated Whitney Houston and her beautiful music. Not only that they are powerful vocally, they appeal to the emotions and form a part of your life. Yes, she may have wasted the late part of her life away doing drugs and other forms of addiction but then again, we all have problems and we have our own forms of coping with them. Though in most people’s pedestals, she’s still human.

Regardless of the un-diva things she’s done, Whitney Houston gave us beautiful music where we can draw inspirations from. She was a legacy, an epitome of class and talent, that the younger and succeeding generations missed greatly.

Thank you for the Greatest Love of All. You will be missed.

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And here I am playing my favorite Whitney Houston song on-loop…

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Hair Scare

Most people consider the hair as their crowning glory, I do too.

poor service

I just hated the way the hair on the side of my head keeps on clumping making me look like Larry Fine. Today, after an interview at some company, as I was on my way leaving Brgy. Kapitolyo, I happened to pass by Anyo Salon and Spa that seemed void of customers. Even if the salon looked dubious, with its ‘beauticians’ er, I mean image stylists looking like overweight trolls hanging out by the door, I decided to have my quick fix.

First observation: 1) the stylist who entertained me looked worse than the comedian, Chokoleit. He was sporting a Justin Bieber-ish hair with the bangs in BLONDE! I remember a friend giving an advice that whenever new in a salon, always choose the stylist with the best hair because most likely, he has style. This trog, CLEARLY HAS NO SENSE OF STYLE WHATSOEVER. (Pardon my CAPS, I just hated what he f_cking did to my hair) So basically, I disregarded the first hint.

Second, his cape (the one they put on you to avoid being covered with hair) smelled awful–like some sweaty guy slept on it. I just told myself not to complain, you do not ask for more when you’re getting a Php 50.00-haircut.

Third and finally, the way he cuts my hair was so lax. Think of a lazy hippo in a watering hole. Yes, that’s how.

Then in the middle of my dilemma came a call–it was the company asking me to go back since the big boss wanted to see me for the final interview. I hurried the stylist to finish my cut yet to be keen on details. Subsequently, my honey called me up and my attention drifted away from saving my hair into a potential disaster.

The edge behind the ear on this side was shaved too high and not equal with the left ear. Ugh.

The result: an utter disappointment. I just zuezzed up my hair to make it at the least presentable and went to the counter to pay. Much to my surprise, when I handed the stylist a hundred bucks, without bothering to say something, stuffed the bill into the cash register. I asked for the loose change to which he replied: “I am the senior (stylist).” I wanted to make a face but time was of the essence. Thinking to myself, the cut he did was not even worth my measly sum of coins alone. Frustrated, I went to my interview and tried to shrug everything off until Jordan and I met at Makati. It was then that he made me realize how idiotic the cut was. It was bordering military and wearing a toupee. Insane. That’s when I started looking for a place where I can have it fixed the soonest. I ended up meeting my old stylist, which I no longer go to, for him to remedy the problem and soften up the angles that were very offensive. It was my honey who oversaw everything telling Lito (my old stylist) what to cut and decrease.

Thankful for my new look, I went home satisfied and with a smile. And thanks to my newfound image consultant (naks!), my hon’.  :) )

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